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    November 02, 2009

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    Dennis Scheibmeir

    Thanks Ed - that makes sense. It would certainly not be helpful to respond immediately based upon emotions. Even folks who love what they do will have bad days, bad weeks, etc. I'm sorry to hear this has been the worst year for consulting. I'm guessing this might be mostly attributable to the economy.

    This particular item is interesting: "You take better than usual care of yourself and encourage others to do the same— physical well-being significantly impacts mental well-being and response to stress."

    I think this is tough to do in reality, as people will drop their gym membership when they are struggling financially. It's also tough to go be around folks who are doing well.

    I'm still challenged by expressions of "game-changing" and "game-face". I've never been one to oh and ah over a "cute" baby or to feign excitement over something I'm not at all interested in. Maybe I missed that life-training. I think it works for me.

    Maybe I'm a little too exacting in expecting expressions to carry their freight, but it doesn't seem so much a game, as it is life. And "game-changing" and "life-changing" are a part of life. It seems to me that what we are really talking about is the ability to adapt. We grieve that things aren't as easy as they once were, and lament that now there is so much more required. If we fail to adapt to the new ways then we will become increasingly irrelevant.

    I wrote more, and rather than posting it, I'm finding myself pondering what it means. The post is more challenging to me than I had previously realized. There are indeed shifts in culture, creep in expectations, and increasing demand to be entertained and wowwed. There is the feeling that if we don't do more, then someone else will do it.

    Much to think about. As usual, Ed, you give me things to consider. Thank you for that!

    Ed Brenegar

    He used a poor choice of words, but not wearing our emotions on our sleeve is a sound strategy. Having had the worst year of my consulting career, I can tell you that putting a game face on is not an act of self-deception, but an act of belief that I can do better.

    The larger issue is whether people who are out of work have the creative resources to reconceive what they are to do. I've begun to coach people who are somewhat lost because nothing in their previous experience prepared them for what they are experiencing now. It is a game-changing transition for most of us, and if we don't change how we approach our work, we'll find it increasingly hard to put a game face on.

    Dennis Scheibmeir

    Things on this list were once the way to get ahead. Are you saying that these are necessary just to stay put? How does one get ahead then?

    It's a cute list, entertaining, and no doubt some live by it. But personally I find it to be like ingredients to a bargain hotdog - much of them unsavory.

    I get it about working harder, longer, volunteering, and doing your best to be responsive to customers, bosses and peers. These should come somewhat natural if we love what we are doing.

    But faking it, putting on a game face, shrugging off shit, etc - these aren't in line with good health, nor with long-term success. These are far from anything that could be called a sweet-spot. If a person has to do these things for very long they are going to become quite resentful, and may "snap". That's just too much pressure and too much balogna. I'm glad that I'm not in that rat race - and I'm surprised Tom didn't "sweat the details" on this list.

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